Thursday, October 14, 2010

Assignment#7:My Self Value

Jealousy lies somewhere in the gray area between sanity and madness.A feeling that has been around and still happens to live around us in our everyday life's.Their are some who are unhappy with their lifes that they become to envy someone elses.They say such things like "oh it must be great to be in her/his shoes they have everything beauty, friends, just a perfect life."But in reality we don't see the truth.Maybe in their lives they really aren't happy at all.

They might have everything they ever wanted but are they really happy? These are all the things people should think about when it comes to being jealous of someone elses life.They may have everything they ever wanted but you have to take a look at what God gave you.He gave you these things because he believed you deserved them.But take a good look around maybe you have everything you ever wanted and it's all in your own life.Some seem to hide this emotion very well and their are those who cannot control this at all.

Their are some who seem to compare their lifes with others because they believe their life isn't good enough.They don't work hard enough to achieve these things that they wish for.For some,it is hard to appreciate everything about themselfs,they are unhappy with themselfs.Then the feeling starts to builds up in themselfs they begin to get jealous of someone else.But in reality take a look at yourself.When you look in the mirror you should see somewho who has achieved so many things in life.

I think to myself "I have accomplished so many things in my life but yet why am I so sad still."I found that it's because I have been trying to make everyone else happy and forgot about my own self happiness.I was trying to make everyone happy and not making my voice heard.I never said what I wanted for my life I was always doing what I was told.People always seem to care what other people think.This is the down fall of most people.

They think that they have to be exactly what people expect.But in reality you should want to be someone who feels comfortable in their own skin.There is always going to be criticism in the world.So if someone calls you fat, just ignore them don't listen to any rumors you might hear.If you don't believe all the stuff they say about you then it doesn't make it true.Only you can prove them all wrong.

If some one were to call you fat it's because maybe they aren't really happy with themselves.To make them feel better they like to put other people down.But this is when you take a good look at yourself and see that you're better then that.If you think that you're fat just because someone else told you then you should try and change your self image.As long as you can't love yourself then you will not be able to love anyone else for that matter.You have to feel comfortable in your own skin and know that you look good and you have everything in your life so that you never have to be jealous of envious.